A Celebration of Life and Legacy
James Valentine, a beloved figure in Australian media, has been remembered as a “wonderful human being,” a loving father, and a “funny, inclusive, empathic” veteran broadcaster at his public memorial in Sydney. His passing at the age of 64 came just two years after he was diagnosed with cancer, leaving behind a legacy that continues to resonate with those who knew him.
The memorial service, held at Sydney Town Hall, brought together family, friends, celebrities, fellow musicians, and loyal audience members. Master of ceremonies Richard Glover, who shared the airwaves with Valentine for years, described the event as a “celebration” to “give thanks.” He emphasized that while the loss was deeply felt, the focus should also be on what they gained from knowing Valentine.
“Today, we are all, me included, so focused on what we have lost. But I hope we can also think about what we gained through knowing him, hearing him, being part of his beautiful, whimsical, creative world,” Glover said. He highlighted Valentine’s wit, wisdom, and appreciation for the rich drama of everyday life.
Governor-General Sam Mostyn paid tribute to Valentine’s contributions to public life, recalling that she had appointed him a member of the Order of Australia shortly before his death. She praised his commitment to kindness and community, stating, “We’ve lost a truly great Australian, a wonderful human being.”
Valentine’s daughter, Ruby, shared heartfelt memories of her father, emphasizing that despite often being told he did not want children, he was the “best dad anyone could ever imagine.” She spoke of his unwavering support, saying, “He was there in every moment I needed advice, a shoulder to cry on.” Ruby noted how he embraced their interests, no matter how small, treating them as if they were the most important things in the world.
Friend and celebrity chef Matt Moran expressed his devastation upon learning of Valentine’s terminal diagnosis. “None of us were ready to face it. He did, and somehow he made us too,” he said. The emotional impact of Valentine’s illness was evident in the way those around him coped with the news.
Valentine’s son, Roy, shared a poignant account of their final week together. “We bundled him up, surrounded him with love, and we didn’t leave his side, and we kept telling him how much we love him.” Roy mentioned that his father had planned a voluntary assisted death, which, while difficult, was something he had accepted as the inevitable end.
A Career Built on Connection
Valentine’s career spanned 30 years as a radio presenter on the ABC, most notably on the Afternoons show on 702 ABC Sydney. His unique approach to talkback radio left an indelible mark on the industry. He officially retired in February this year, marking the end of a distinguished career with a special broadcast that celebrated his achievements.
ABC managing director Hugh Marks praised Valentine as “a master of the art that was his chosen craft,” highlighting his genuine connection with the audience. Veteran broadcaster Margaret Throsby, who had a long-standing friendship with Valentine, spoke of the deep impact his loss had on colleagues and listeners alike. She shared messages from loyal fans, describing the overwhelming wave of love and sadness that continued to pour into the ABC.
Throsby reflected on Valentine’s personality, noting that he “made people laugh, he was curious, he was serious, he was funny, inclusive, empathic, inquiring, generous, creative, and playful.” These qualities endeared him to many, both within and beyond the ABC.
A Final Tribute
The memorial concluded with a touching musical tribute. Paul Kelly performed “Meet Me in the Middle of the Air,” while Jimmy and Mahalia Barnes delivered a rendition of “You’ve Got a Friend.” As the service came to a close, “When the Saints Go Marching In” played, honoring the renowned saxophonist in a jazz tradition. Valentine’s saxophone was carried as the audience filed out, symbolizing the lasting impact he had on those who attended.
Through his work, his relationships, and his personal values, James Valentine left a legacy that will continue to inspire and influence generations to come.
